If your kids are older, many moderators will certainly suggest including them in the sessions. It makes good sense, because, basically, you're reviewing their welfare. When it involves house and Contact Orders, the two of you want the same thing, which is whatever's ideal for the youngsters, as well as the mediator can help you work out the most sensible, functional solutions. Yet that also includes economic issues, such as mortgages-- the children require somewhere to live, after all.